A Young Widow Finds a Family
(The story of Ruth)


Prayer. “Lord, help the children to love their relatives like Ruth, Naomi and Boaz did.”

Prepare to teach one of the greatest stories about love. Read Ruth chapters 1–4.

·         Boaz’ love for Ruth illustrates how Christ loved and redeemed us who believe in Him.

·         You might spend more than one weekly session on the story, or deal only with parts of it.

Let older children or a teacher tell by memory the story of Ruth. You might let three or four children each relate the main events of a chapter.

Chapter 1. Explain:

·         An Israelite man left Israel to live in Moab with his wife Naomi and their two sons. The sons both married Moabite women, Ruth and Orpha.

·         All three men died, leaving three widows. Naomi had to return to Israel to seek food.

·         Ruth and Orpha wanted to go with Naomi, but she told them to go back to their parents’ homes.

·         Orpha wept and returned to her parents, but Ruth showed love and loyalty as she clung to her widowed mother-in-law, Naomi, begging to go to Israel with her.

Chapter 2. Explain:

Wealthy Boaz showed a noble heart as he treated Ruth with compassion and respect, while she gleaned grain in his fields for her and Naomi to eat. Israel’s ancient law allowed poor people to glean what the harvesters left behind. Ask:

·         Where did Ruth get grain for her and Naomi to eat? (Answer: See Ruth 2:3)

·         How hard did Ruth work in the fields? (See verse 7)

·         Did Boaz mistreat Ruth, because she was poor and a foreigner? (See verses 14-15)

·         What did Ruth do to help her poor mother-in-law, Naomi? (See verse 18)

Chapter 3. Explain:

·         Ruth showed courage asking Boaz, a relative, to defend her rights by marrying her.

·         Ancient custom required the closest male relative to avenge or rescue a victim of violence, of poverty or of dying without an heir.

·         Boaz is an example of Jesus our redeemer, who rescued us from Satan.

Chapter 4. Explain:

·         Boaz dealt wisely with a relative who was more closely related to Ruth, so that this relative would let Boaz marry her.

·         Boaz and Ruth showed love by marrying, and by letting Naomi help raise their child.

·         Ruth became the great grandmother of David, a great king and an ancestor of Jesus.

Dramatize parts of the story of Ruth. Arrange with the leader of the main congregational worship for the children to present this drama. Let the older children help the younger ones prepare.

Let older children or adults play the parts of Ruth, Naomi and the Narrator who summarizes the story and helps the children to remember what to say and do.

Let the younger children play Orpha and Workers, who can hold leaves or sticks as grain.



Narrator: (Briefly tell the First Part of the story from Ruth chapter 1. Then say:)  “Hear what Naomi says to Ruth and Orpha.”

Naomi: “Our husbands are dead. I go to Israel to seek food. Go back to your families.”

Orpha: (Hug Naomi and weep, then walk away.)

Ruth: (Kneel and beg Naomi:) “Where you go, I will go, and where you live, I will live. Your people shall be my people, and your God, my God. Where you die, I will die.”

Narrator: (Briefly review the Second Part of the story from Ruth chapter 2. Then say:) “Hear what Ruth says to Naomi,

Ruth: “Mother, we need food. I will go gather the grain that the harvesters leave behind.” (Walk toward the workers and pretend to pick up stalks of grain from the ground.)

Boaz: “Workers, who is that woman picking up grain in my field?”

Workers: “She is Ruth, a poor foreign widow. She works hard and seldom rests.”

Boaz: Go to Ruth and say, “Ruth, I have heard of your kindness to Naomi. Stay in my fields to gather grain, and eat the food that I provide for my workers.”

Boaz: Go to the workers and say, “Let Ruth gather grain. Do not bother her. Be sure to let some grain fall where she can gather it.”

Narrator: “Hear what Ruth says to Naomi that evening.”

Ruth: “Mother, look at all the grain that I gathered from Boaz’ field! This is yours!”

Naomi: “Daughter, Boaz is a close relative. He has been kind to us as poor widows. May God bless him! Do not go to any other fields during this harvest time.”

Narrator: Briefly review the rest of the story of the book of Ruth. Repeat the explanations for chapters 3 and 4, above. Thank those who helped.

Questions. If the children dramatize this story for the adults, then let them also ask the adults the questions listed above for Chapter 2.

Picture: Draw a picture of stalks of grain that grows locally; let the children copy it. Let them show their pictures to the adults during worship time and explain that it illustrates how both Ruth and Boaz cared for family members by sharing blessings with them.

Discuss other examples of how God uses family members to care for us? Let adults and children give examples. Also ask: Of what great family has God made us a part forever?

Poem. Let four children each recite a verse from Proverbs 31:10, 15, 20 and 30.

Let older children write a poem or song with words from Ruth 1:16-17.

Memorize Ephesians 6:1-3

Prayer. “Lord, we thank you for our families. Help us to honour our parents and serve one another like you served us. Please, bring our family members to know you as Saviour.”